As an occupational therapist working with people with dementia, I learned that how we approach someone with dementia can change everything. A little warmth and the right body language can make the difference between someone who cooperates with you and someone who becomes nervous or upset by your approach.
- Be at Eye Level: Sit or bend down so you’re looking at them eye-to-eye and facing them. This is less intimidating and helps them feel connected.
- Relax Your Body: Avoid crossing your arms or looking tense. Stay open and calm—this helps them feel more at ease.
- Respect Their Space: Approach slowly and gently so they feel comfortable and not startled.
These simple gestures work well with everyone, yet we sometimes forget to use them with those who have dementia. They’re not "different" or "made from a different material", they deserve the same warmth and respect.
Small touches like these can make a world of difference—encouraging cooperation and making it easier to give medications, engage them in activities, or provide support.
